I don’t find myself often in Baltimore, but I’m often near it, and I suppose this can be said for most cities on the eastern seaboard. Once you land at the BWI airport, Philadelphia, Washington, D.C. and New York City are all reasonable drives – reasonable at least from a distance standpoint, if not necessarily from one of drive time. And I’m always amazed that while it’s hard for mapmakers to work in the names of all those clustered cities that collectively hold tens of millions of people, you still see so much lush greenery on the East Coast. It’s just not that difficult to imagine the Indian-filled forests of Cooper, Hawthorne and Roberts.
A niece was married yesterday, my sister’s daughter, and the oldest grandbaby of my parents. The bride was effervescent and beautiful, the husband handsome and restless as a trophy buck at dusk during hunting season. It was a small, elegant affair and family reunion of sorts, as weddings and funerals tend to be. It was an uncommonly temperate day for October too, which allowed everyone, save the bride, to walk to the church for the nuptials and back to the house for the reception. My siblings and I stood apart on one side of the house for a long while, like errant high school students sneaking a smoke, laughing ridiculously in the re-telling of stories from our youth that would have bored the bejeezus out of anyone else – so maybe it was good that we spared the others by hiding out.
My wife and I took our 22-year-old daughter who is very good friends with the niece. She had spent this summer in Dublin on an internship without serious incident, so we refrained on this trip, reluctantly and with great effort, from giving her travel reminders and advice. This was to show ourselves that we could allow our children to grow up and spread their wings, etc. Well, she forgot her I.D. and had to take a later flight on the journey out, packed her laptop into her checked baggage and had her screen broken by baggage handlers, and didn’t check in for the overbooked flight home and got the last open seat on the plane. She never panicked or complained, so I guess it could be said she’s learning a few good things about getting from here to there. What my wife and learned watching all this, I haven’t a clue.
The Orioles won a one-game playoff to enter baseball’s post-season the evening we arrived, so the celebratory mood in Baltimore was palpable. The O’s have had a magical season, what with scores of improbable extra inning wins and an invincibility when in the lead after seven innings, so post-season anticipation mixed with a wedding mood made for a weekend well enjoyed. I was glad I remembered to pack my Orioles cap on Friday (just in case), and felt smugly fraudulent as I strolled through BWI today, nodding knowingly at real fans in their O’s gear. Hey, you got to root for somebody when your team finishes eighteen games under .500.

